The first step in creating the life you want is to define that life. Is it the house in the suburbs with a husband and kids? Is it by yourself in a resort town? Is it going back to your folks because they need the help? It is hard to move forward when forward isn’t clear.
I am going to do the best I can where I am with what I have. So for today that means doing the housekeeping chores this house needs, working on my at home business and working on finding regular paid employment and planning for an empty nest.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.